2. Recognizing Manipulative Language
“Are you hearing but not really listening? Let’s dissect the words that shift your reality.”
Ever heard someone say, “You’re imagining things,” or “I never said that, you’re overreacting”? Statements like these chip away at your sense of perception—a tactic known as gaslighting. Other examples of manipulative language include exaggerated praise (“No one else could possibly handle this; only you can”) or veiled threats (“I’d hate to see what will happen if you don’t…”).
Manipulative language often leaves you feeling confused or guilty without a concrete reason. The goal is to subtly nudge you into a decision or state of mind that benefits the other party.
Tip:
When you sense manipulative language, ask clarifying questions such as, “Can you explain what you mean by that?” This can disrupt manipulative patterns and steer the conversation toward clarity.
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